BUSY!!!

Guys xensya na mo if wala pa kaayo'y update atong blog ha, kay medyo busy man ko gamay gud... hehehe... If got time, I will update our blog pero as for now medyo lie-low sa ko gamay... Balik ko next month para ma alegre nasad atong blog balik... We are planning for more E.B! (si mokz-k lang bahala ana ahahahaha) ... Anyways, members must join para lingaw sad ta ba... mo prangka lang ko ninyo daan nga dili kaau ko mo GM ninyo, but ayaw lang kabalaka... I'm here nga mag observe ra ninyo! hahaha mura man sad ug korek! Woie, next EB nato ha? kinahanglan daghan ta ana, then sa mga nag eskwela pa just ask consent sa inyong parents para makauban mo kay ang plano ra ba ni mokz-k kay mag outing daw ta! (mayta madayun) okey? tarung lang mo pananghid sa inyong parents ana... cgeh ana lang... good times guys!

Deathwolf

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!

Deathwolf

500 Days of Summer Movie

As requested by Ladyjaja... This movie is nice!
(500) Days of Summer is a 2009 romantic-drama-comedy film. It was written by Scott Neustadter and Michael H. Weber, directed by Marc Webb, produced by Mark Waters, and stars Joseph Gordon-Levitt and Zooey Deschanel. The story is presented in a nonlinear narrative structure and depicts a memory-driven look at a failed romance.

If Naa Mo Uyab, Are You Still Care About Relationship Monthsaries?

So hapit naman Valentines guys! Kung kinsa to wala pa kabasa sa Balentayns entry nako, you can check it out guys... Okey magsugod nata. Mao jud ni akong dakung pangutana ninyo tanan. If naa mo uyab, mo care pa ba mo sa inyong monthsaries? I mean, inyo jud siyang kwentahon? Coz sa akoa lang, I do not count monthsaries gud! Mao cguro masuko akong mga kauyaban sauna coz dili ko magkwenta sa mga monthsaries gud... hehehe... Bitaw seriously, I count for years jud. But sad to say, sa akong mga nauyab, wala jud ko kaabot ug tuig jud. Looy noh? lol... Anyways, gusto nako nga mo share sad mo sa inyong mga comments ba. If sakto ba akong opinion. Bitaw, wala man sa'y sakto or sayup sa atong mga opinion ba. Perhaps it's because I'm getting older (paita sad pero moabot man jud na) and these were things you did during the puppy love era (tinood jud na cya coz binata ra jud na sauna especially sa highschool), but it appears there has been a decline in the significance of a relationship monthsary. The reason for Valentines Day is to celebrate your love with your partner, any more dates that are needed to be remembered is just pointless. Also, it should be agreed upon that the stupidest things ever is the monthsary--if you celebrate that with your bf/gf, I already know now that you and I can't hang out. hehehe.. ana lang! Good times guys!

[by Deathwolf]

Top 100 Nice Flash Websites

Grabe, wala jud ko lingaw ron aie... I slept at 2 pm then nimata dayun mga 4pm para mag internet ra. Adika jud nako! WTF! Kay wala lagi lingaw, as usual, search search ra sa internet then I found this website! WOW! very interesting! hehehe...

courtesy of 1Flashmenu.com, this is a gallery of 100 colorful, inspiring, creative, interactive and beautiful Flash-based web-sites in the web. Click here for the rest of the gallery or click on the photo to be directed to the example sites.

1 to 100

Dugay nako kita ani nga video. Then I posted it sa akong personal blog half a year ago. Nahan ko i-share diri sa B2TMC blog. Enjoy! :)





[by Deathwolf]

B2TMC EB!

Okey guys, mao ni atong pictures katung nag EB ta sa Calda Pizza near South Bus Terminal. Hmmm... Naa'y uban nabusog sa pizza, naa sad wala especially ako! hahaha.. joke! anyways, heres a link sa mga pictures nato... kindly grab nalang... Thanks!

[PS: Sa katong wala nakakuyog sa EB nato, next time apil namo ha... Lingaw man gud kung daghan ta, den dala sad mo kwarta para sa amot... hehehe good times guys!]

Click here for more pictures...

Deathwolf

Cheer For Your Team Like How The Koreans Do It

This is just awesome. I don't know what event this is from, maybe they are preparing to root for Korea in the World Cup, it doesn't matter--it's just so good. It's much more amazing when humans don't need technology from time to time. Enjoy this video of the Human LCD. Grabe! Maayo jud kaayo ni sila! Two thumbs up for this one!



Deathwolf

Tan-awa!

Tan-awa maayo ang picture, kung makakita ka ug bukton, buot pasabot bayot ka.

Deathwolf

Crazy Awesome

Lesbian Relationship

Mopatol sila ug tomboy kay:

• wala may laki nga nanguyab nila.
• tomboy pud sila, ganahan sila mo l_ck, dili sila mo s_ck.
• tungod sa kwarta.
• traumatic ila mga na uyab nga laki. dili kahibalo modala?
• wala makabadlong ila ginikanan. or wala na silay ginikanan nga maka badlong nila.
• chemical reaction. Ganahan lang siya sa tomboy.

Well, kana sila mostly naikog lang na cla sa ila amiga nga tomboy. Or dili na cla gusto nga panguyaban ug lalaki, or dili sila ganahan nga mapamabdosan. I ask my friend (girl)..."yucks" iya tubag... Di daw niya ma-ilaila sa iya parents ug maulaw daw siya sa mga taw...

People live by choices and its their choice so fans & critics alike we just have to live by their decision that they're happy with their own kind... Complex na gyud kaayu ang humans karun.. They can express multiply sexuality ,pero maka suya man sad ning mga tomboy oi... gwapa ra ba pud sila, gwapa sad kaayu ang mga uyab. hahaha!!! Bitaw, seriously... depende, naa uban girl nga Man-hater jud or naay girl nga mo-shift lang deretso siguro bisan sa ilang experiences sa ilang previous relationship nga lalaki.. Kung tomboy sad kay grabe makahatag ug LOVE, very dedicated ang mga tibu daw. I have a friend pud na uyab niya tomboy.. Sus! gwapa kaayo ang girl woi sayang lagi kaayo... tsk tsk tsk... Unya ask ko niya ngano nipatol siya ato unya ana siya na LOVE daw niya... Wa ta'y mahims... hehehe... pero para nko usa ray rason ana. Tomboy ra pud ang mopatol ug tomboy...

For one thing, its their choice. Maybe they got hurt by some guy in their past..and so subconsciously or consciously they now prefer to be with women. or they may have some bad experience with men in their lives... Maybe family members even. or they have heard of bad relationships with men from others and decided they do not want to be with men or maybe they are influenced by their girl friends and their lesbianrelationships or maybe they're just plain curious and want to try out new things. So ana lang guys. Gabalik-balik nako ug explain.

I have a theory. If Yin signifies the female aspect of one's self and Yang signify the male part, then tomboys have too much Yin so that they are only able to appreciate someone that is, in essence, similar to them - the only thing that they can internally accept.
Females converted to tomboyism as a result of circumstance are exempted from this theory. Oh ha? kasabot mo ana? Sabot nalang para madali ta... hehehe

So ana lang. LOVE chooses no gender... So dapat irespeto pud nato sila.

[by Deathwolf]

The World's Most Dangerous Places To Live Caused By Mother Nature

We are all used to a good ass-kicking that Mother Nature bestows upon us year after year, but while our typhoons are frequent and devastating, there are other places out there that have it just a bit worse than we do. I found this article on Travelvista.com, which enumerated the deadliest places to live around the world.

1. Mt Vesuvius Volcano, Campania, Italy

Mount Vesuvius is one of the world’s most dangerous volcanoes. The volcano has an eruption cycle of about 20 years, but the last eruption was in 1944. The volcano is rated as one of the most dangerous in the world with millions of people living close to the crater. In 79 AD an eruption of the volcano destroyed Pompeii and its remains are a popular tourist attraction south of Napoli. In recent years there has been an attempt to relocate some resident from the slopes of the volcano to reduce the risk from the next eruption.

2. The Cold Pole, Verkhoyansk, Russia

Verkhoyansk lays claim to the title of coldest city in the world, the so-called Cold Pole. It’s hard to dispute the designation, when you consider that from September to March the city averages fewer than 5 hours of sunlight each day. (In December and January, there is nearly no sunlight.) Winter temperatures there typically fall between minus 60 and minus 40 degrees Fahrenheit. The low, recorded in the late 19th century, was minus 90. Nowadays, the city is attempting to attract “extreme tourists,” who are drawn by the intense cold. For much of its history, however, Verkhoyansk was a preferred exile destination, used first by the czars, then later by the Soviets. In the 20th century, Verkoyansk’s population peaked at 2500 residents.

3. Mt. Merapi, Indonesia

Even during its most tranquil periods, Mount Merapi, on the island of Java, smolders. Smoke ominously floats from its mouth, 10,000 feet in the sky. “Fire Mountain,” as its name translates to English, has erupted about 60 times in the past five centuries, most recently in 2006. Before that, a 1994 eruption sent forth a lethal cloud of scalding hot gas, which burned 60 people to death. In 1930, more than 1000 people died when Merapi spewed lava over 8 square miles around its base, the high death toll being the result of too many people living too close. In spite of this volatile history, approximately 200,000 villagers reside within 4 miles of the volcano. But Merapi is just one example of Javans tempting fate in the proximity of active volcanoes—it’s estimated that 120 million of the island’s residents live at the foot of 22 active volcanoes.

4. Haiti's Storms, Gonaives, Haiti

First came tropical storm Fay on August 16. A week later, Hurricane Gustav blew through. Following in quick succession were Hurricanes Hanna and Ike. In the span of just one month, the coastal city of Gonaïves, one of Haiti’s five largest cities, found itself on the receiving end of four devastating tropical cyclones. When the last storm passed, Gonaïves had practically been washed out to sea. Much of the city was buried under mud, or submerged in filthy water that stood 12 feet deep in some places. The death toll ran close to 500. But the storms of August to September 2008 weren’t the most deadly in Gonaïves’ recent history. In 2004, the city of 104,000 took a severe beating from Hurricane Jeanne. Three thousand Haitians died when the Category 3 storm hit and leveled large swaths of the city. What makes Gonaïves so susceptible to destruction by hurricane? Aside from its coastal location on the Gulf of Gonâve, smack-dab in the cyclone-inclined Caribbean, Gonaïves rests on a flood plain prone to washing out when inland rivers swell. Furthermore, Haitians rely on wood to make charcoal, their primary source of fuel, and this has led to massive deforestation of the hillsides surrounding the city. As a result, when the rains come, the hills around Gonaïves melt away and mudslides nearly bury the city.

5. Lake Kivu, Democratic Republic of Congo/Rwanda

Lake Kivu, located along the border between the Democratic Republic of Congo and Rwanda, is one of Africa’s Great Lakes. Deep below the surface of this lake’s 2700 square miles, there are 2.3 trillion cubic feet of methane gas, along with 60 cubic miles of carbon dioxide trapped beneath the lake under the pressure of the water and earth. If released from the depths, these gases could spread a cloud of death over the 2 million Africans who make their home in the Lake Kivu basin. The precedent for this concern stems from a pair of events that occurred in the 1980s at two other African lakes with similar chemical compositions. In 1984, 37 people died around Cameroon’s Lake Monoun in a limnic eruption. Three years later, at Lake Nyos, also in Cameroon, 80 cubic meters of CO2 were released from the water. Subsequently, 1700 people died from exposure to the toxic gas. These incidents were apparently caused by volcanic activity below the lakes, which triggered the release of the gas. Similar activity is believed to occur beneath Lake Kivu, causing many to worry that this area is next. A report from the United Nations’ Environmental Program went so far as to call the three bodies “Africa’s Killer Lakes,” and said Lake Kivu was cause for”serious concern.”

6. The Maldives, Indian Ocean

The Maldives are such a dangerous place that Muhammed Nasheed, upon taking office in 2008, made it one his first items of business as the Maldives’ first democratically elected president to announce a plan to create a fund for financing the relocation of the entire population. The Maldives is a confederation of 1190 islands and atolls in the Indian Ocean. Its highest point of elevation is little more than 6 feet, and, sometime in the not-too-distant future, it is likely to be swallowed whole by rising sea levels. A 2005 assessment by the United States Geological Survey, conducted after the 2004 Indian Ocean tsunami, called the Maldives one of the Earth’s youngest land masses, adding that they’re not long for life above water. According to the report, the islands “should be considered ephemeral features over geologic time.” By President Nasheed’s reckoning, the people of the Maldives would be well-served to find someplace else—India or Sri Lanka were floated as potential refuges—lest they too become ephemeral. Recent events support his decision to invest money earned through tourism in a relocation fund: The 2004 tsunami, which occurred at low tide, swept over the island, leaving 10 percent of the country uninhabitable. Of the Maldives’ 300,000 citizens, one-third were left homeless, and more than 80 people died. In 1987, during so-called “king tides,” the capital of Malé, an island city covering 1 square mile, was completely inundated. The effects of these disasters were compounded by the mining of the coral reefs that surround the islands, which has made them highly susceptible to sea erosion.

7. Hurricane Capital Of The World, Grand Cayman

The Cayman Islands, a British territory situated 150 miles south of Cuba, are best known as a tropical playground for the champagne and caviar set, who come to the islands for pristine Caribbean beaches, world-class diving, and lax banking regulations. Less alluring is the islands’ other reputation as “hurricane capital of the world.” According to the tropical-storm-tracking website hurricanecity.com, Grand Cayman, the largest of the three Cayman isles, is hit or brushed by at least one hurricane every 2.16 years, more than any other locale in the Atlantic basin. Since 1871, 64 storms have battered the low-lying limestone formation, often with catastrophic results. In 2004, Hurricane Ivan, a Category 5 storm with wind speeds approaching 150 miles per hour, dumped a foot of rain on Grand Cayman. A 10-foot storm surge followed, submerging a quarter of the island. An estimated 70 percent of the island’s buildings were destroyed, and its 40,000 inhabitants were left without power or clean water for days.

8. The I-44 Tornado Corridor, Oklahoma City/Tulsa, Oklahoma, USA

More than 1 million people reside along the Interstate 44 corridor that runs between Oklahoma City and Tulsa, the Sooner State’s two most populous metropolitan areas. Each spring, as the cool, dry air from the Rocky Mountains glides across the lower plains, and the warm, wet air of the Gulf Coast comes north to meet it, the residents of this precarious stretch, locally called Tornado Alley, settle in for twister season. Since 1890, more than 120 tornados have struck Oklahoma City and the surrounding area, which currently has a population of approximately 700,000. On May 3, 1999, an outbreak of 70 tornados stretched across Oklahoma, Kansas and Texas. Several of the most destructive storms swept through Oklahoma City, destroying 1700 homes and damaging another 6500. Even with modern prediction capabilities and early-warning systems, 40 people died when an F-5 twister tore through Oklahoma City. In addition to the loss of life, this display of natural devastation caused more than $1 billion in damage. Since 1950, the longest the area has gone without a tornado is five years—from 1992 to 1998. (As if making up for lost time, in the 11 months that followed that record lull, 11 tornados hit.) For only three other periods during the last half-century has Oklahoma City gone more than two years without a tornado. Northeast of Oklahoma City, along the same track that most tornado-producing storms travel, sits Tulsa, which has experienced its own share of devastation at the hands of Tornado Alley’s storms. Between 1950 and 2006, 69 tornados spun across Tulsa County—population 590,000—though none proved as deadly as the 1999 storm that hit Oklahoma City. But because of its geography—the city lies along the banks of the Arkansas River and is built atop an extensive series of creeks and their flood plains—Tulsa is particularly vulnerable to the rain that accompanies Oklahoma’s severe weather. Major floods in 1974, 1976 and 1984 caused hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of damage.

9. China’s Creeping Sandbox, Minquin County, China

Trapped between two creeping deserts, the once fertile oasis of Minqin County, in northwest Gansu province, lives on borrowed time. The double whammy of a decade-long drought and the upriver diversion of water from its lifeline, the Shiyang River, have left Minqin to wither into the Tengger desert, which approaches from the southeast, and the Badain Jaran, closing in from the northwest. In total, since 1950, the deserts have swallowed up more than 100 square miles. During that same period, the population there has risen from 860,000 to more than 2 million. As of 2004, the deserts were approaching at a rate of 10 meters per year. With more than 130 days of wind and dust each year, that rate is unlikely to slow. Faced with rapid desertification, the Chinese government has begun relocating displaced farmers, as arable land has decreased from 360 square miles to fewer than 60.

source: motwister.com

Deathwolf

This Relationship Will Not Work

Makalagot kaayo paminawn kay mostly sa mga babae mawad-an ug pagsalig sa lalaki tungod sa sobrang pagkababaero niini. Naa man ju'y ubang taw nga wala ju'y katagbawan sa kaugalingon. Pero dili tanang lalaki ingon ana kay naa pa tawn me mga buotan diri... ehem!

Partner sa kinabuhi:

• Ang girl gwapa ug ang boy ugly: Tinud anay na gugma
• Ang girl ugly ug ang boy gwapo: Gipikot ang lalake
• Ang girl gwapa ug ang boy gwapo: Dili mag dugay ang relasyon
• Ang girl ugly ug ang boy ugly pud: NO CHOICE clang duha Bwahahaha! joke ra ha.

Nanu dili magdugay ang relasyon? [mga hinungdan]

• Dili magkasinabut.
• Problema sa kwarta.
• Wala'y salig sa partner.
• Long distance relationship.
• Sex?
• Wala'y simba-simba. [manimba daw, pero managkut ra diay hehehe]

Ngano sakit kung bulagan ka or magbulag mo sa imong uyab?

Before i feel this every single day...but because of my divertions..i easily get over it and move on....

you feel this feelings merely because

• Fresh pa kaau..
• You still love your ex..
• Dili nimo ma-accept that he's/she's gone..
• Dili ka katoo na you're relationship is done just in a thin air...

As in sakit jud kaayo kung wala na siya. Kay gi love man sad gyud nimo cya.. unless lang cguro fling-fling na so di ra kayo ka affected. but pag love nimo ang tao, lisod gyud makalimtan.

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Sa akoa sad nga opinion guys. If naa gani mo uyab. Ayaw sad tawn na ninyo binuangi woie, kay dili lalim ang masakitan ug magpaasa sa taw. If you really love that person, kinahanglan ampingan jud na nimo and show your care and sincerity diha niya. Then if manguyab sad ka, ayaw sad daghana woie. Imo man sad daghanon. BUANG cguro ka noh? If ingon ana gani imong binuhatan nga magdaghanay ug uyab, aww... GABA nalang imo gud total daku na bitaw ka, kabalo naka unsa imong buhaton. Then reminders sad nako sa mga babaye diha, ayaw sad mo sugot dayun sa lalaki if bag-o pa mo nagkaila woie. AYAW SALIG DAYUN! Make sure to know him better para dili ka maalkanse ug AYAW tawn i surrender ang BAYANG MAGILIW kay nah! Ikaw ra jud ang maalaot ana. IM SERIOUS HERE GUYS! WALA KO NAGBINUANG! And I'm fucking pissed if someone pissed me off! I will punch you in the throat if you dare to do that. hehehe...

[by Deathwolf]

Manny Villar's TV AD WTF

Di ako pro-noynoy guys or kinsa pa nga presidente akong i-vote. I'm sick of listening this AD sa TV. hehehe... gipul-an jud ko paminaw aneh nga kanta. Hasta akong mga manghud nasag-ulo nalang ug kanta gud. hehehe... Lupig pa naa sa amateur contest. Anyway guys, mairita lang ko usahay maminaw ani nga AD coz dili lang tagalog version naa ani, but also naa sad ni cya'y japanese, korean ug spanish version. I think Villar is the one of the richest person here sa Pilipinas. Every advertisement cost hundreds of thousands or maybe moabot pa na cya ug millions. Remind lang nako ninyo guys, nga pls. vote wisely lang jud. hehehe... Dawata lang ang kwarta nga idunol ninyo, sayang man sad if balibaron ninyo. Konsyensya la'y mag igo ninyo. Ang importante duol ta sa ginoo then maayo ta ug lawas. Ana lang. okey? hehehehe...

[updated by Deathwolf]

Facts and Information About Sperm

[via onlineschools.org]

[updated by Deathwolf]

Pseudo-Relationship

[PS: I am not the one wrote this article but, I found it very interesting to those people here having Pseudo-relationship. If you don't know, what pseudo-relationship it is having a relationship with someone with no commitments with each other. Mura'g kamo pero dili diay. I think na igo sad ko ani because I'm having a pseudo-relationship with my bestfriend. That's why I share this one and a reply also sa question ni Fragile. Good times!]

Sa may mga pseudo-relationship, this might help you think about your situation for sure , we know that we should not be in this kind of relationship..Most of you will probably agree that women wants commitment..but sad to say there are lot of women who are caught up in this situation despite the fact na lugi ang babae sa ganitong set-up …

Hay life…

Ang bottom line lang naman, kung magpapasaya sa iyo, gawin mo. Ihanda mo lang ang sarili mo sa consequence. Dahil ang “parang kayo pero hindi” stage ay BIHIRANG nagiging totoo..Usually, hanggang doon lang siya..almost but not quite…

She is a 24-year old copywriter. He is an architect. They met and became lovers in college. They broke up last year but remained to be “friends.” They send sweet text messages and he calls her often to make sure she’s okay. They still date. they still have sex. They don’t see anyone else. It is obvious that they still love each other but when asked about their situation, she doesn’t know the real score. Even her friends are in the dark. “Parang sila, pero hindi.”

She works in a telecom. He is reviewing for the board. They are in the same barkada. They talk on the phone till 4 am. He gives her chocolates, flowers and CDs even when there is no occasion. Their friends are suspecting something. Bakit sila nagsosolo kapag may overnight inuman? Why does he hold her close on the dance floor? Bakit sila magkaholding hands lagi? Sila kaya? “He hasn’t admitted anything,” she rants. “But I let him hug and kiss me. Parang kami, pero hindi.”

They work together in an ad agency. After office, they would watch movie,have dinner and stroll at Glorietta. She gave him Harry Potter books for his birthday in exchange for posing as her boyfriend to make an ex jealous. They made out during the company outing in Subic and never talked about it. He said “I love you” once but she wasn’t sure if she heard him correctly because they were both drunk then. But one thing she is sure of is her feelings for him. She likes him. And she’s assuming that with what he’s doing to her and with her, he likes her, too. There’s just one hitch: he has a girlfriend!

She is a 28-year-old virgin. He’s a 35-year-old bachelor. Both mountaineers,they became close during their climbs. After a few dates in posh restaurants, he brings her to his condo where they would make out. They have been doing this for months. She wants to believe that “sila na” but then she’s not really sure about it. “We don’t talk about it but it doesn’t really matter,” she’d tell her friends. “What’s important is I am enjoying this — whatever it is.”

The “parang kayo, pero hindi” stage. Others call it MU or mutual understanding. Pseudo-relationships. Pseudo-boyfriends. Flings. Almost like a relationship, but not quite. It is a phase where the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite lovers.Puwedeng may verbal agreement, puwedeng wala. One or both of you may have admitted your feelings, possible ding hindi. You just let your gestures do the talking for you. Walang pormal na ligawan na nangyari. Hindi kayo mag-dyowa. Pero sa kilos niyo, sa mga sinasabi niyo, parang kayo, pero hindi.

This kind of “relationship” can happen at different stages for different reasons. It can happen after a break-up. You still love each other, and you want to be with each other but you broke up for a reason. A nd for reasons that you alone know, ayaw niyo na muna magkabalikan.

It can also happen before a relationship, iyong pareho kayong nakikiramdam.Possible din na ayaw niyo munang mag-seryoso kaya kunwa-kunwarian lang muna. Testing lang.

Puwede ring hindi puwedeng maging kayo kasi isa sa inyo –usually the guy –may ka-relasyon na. Kaya habang hindi pa siya nakikipag-break doon sa girl (sabi niya makikipag-break siya soon pero di naman niya ginagawa), wala muna kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi siya nangagaliwa kasi “hindi naman kayo.”

This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be fun. Lalo na kung naghahanap ka lang naman ng “kalaro.”

Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may patutunguhan kayo kasi wala talagang kasiguraduhan.

So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set up ganoong hindi naman sigurado kung may patutunguhan?

Iba’t ibang dahilan. Puwedeng for fun lang. Puwedeng “buti na iyan kesa w ala” or puwede na iyang “pantawid-gutom.” Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real thing, doon muna sa kunwa-kunwarian.

For those who are not in a serious relationship, they would think that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all. It would be fun, if all you are after for is that “kilig” feeling.

Aminado naman ako na once upon a time, may mga pseudo-relationships din ako.No commitments involved. For the simplest reason that they couldn’t commit, because they were either committed to someone else, or that they weren’t ready to commit.

My rationalization, “okay na iyun, kesa wala.”

Ang habol ko lang naman, iyong kilig feeling. Iyong merong nagtatanong kung kumusta araw ko. Iyong merong ka-cuddle sa beach outing. Iyong kapag tumunog ang cellphone, mapapangiti na ako dahil alam kong galing sa kanya ang message. Iyong merong laging kasama. Habang wala pa ang the real thing, puwede na itong pagtiyagaan.

But then I learned that although it was only a pseudo-relationship, the emotions were real. And usually, in this kind of set up, ang babae lagi ang lugi.

Una, you can’t ask him to commit. Since it’s not really a relationship, you can’t demand commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo? May K ka nga ba magpasundo ng hatinggabi? You will always be uncertain about your role in his life. You can’t expect him to be always there with you. And if you feel jealous of the other girls, you just have to keep it to yourself.

Ano ka ba niya para magselos?

Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply in love with him? You can’t be sure if he feels the same way. Baka nag-a-assume ka lang na mahal ka rin niya. Even if you are dying to tell him you love him, you can’t. Because you’re not sure if he’ll like it. Baka mapahiya ka lang. This stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship. Or if there is a relationship at all.

Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much? What if you have invested all your emotions and this man hasn’t? What if you remain faithful to him, not entertaining other guys, only to find out that he is seeing other girls?

Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationships, it is fleeting. When a disagreement sets in, or when one of you gets cold, then that would be the end of it. Unlike in a serious relationship, hindi mo alam kung saan ka lulugar sa isang pseudo-relationship. Wala kang pinanghahawakan. Kasi sa pseudo-relationship, there is no “us.” Meron lang “you and me,” hindi “us.”

Buti sana kung pseudo-pain din lang ang mararanasan mo. Kaso, hindi eh. Real pain. And usually, kahit tapos na ang pseudo-relationship, hindi mo maiwasan umasang one day, may karugtong pa rin iyun. And you will be miserable, hoping to bring back what you used to have, only to find out eventually that the guy is in another pseudo-relationship with somebody else.

Ang hirap, ano? You agreed to this kind of set up for fun and then
you’d end up hurting yourself in the process.

Pero puwede naman maiwasan ang pain eh. Puwede naman na hindi mo
muna isipin ang future and just enjoy the feeling, without thinking of the
consequences.

But if you are certain that you are going to hurt yourself in the process, kailangan mo mamili. You can be happy and live the moment without worrying what would happen next. Or you can stop settling with pseudo-relationships
and wait for the real thing.

When I was younger and in a pseudo-relationship with an unavailable
guy, a friend told me, “Sige, kung ayaw mong magpapigil, bahala ka.
Magpakasaya ka. Pero huwag kang iiyak-iyak pagkatapos, dahil tatadyakan kita.”

[source superkamote]

[Updated by Deathwolf]

Foster Parents

[Updated by Deathwolf]

MAG-UNA JUD PIRME ANG LALAKI

LALAKE:

1. Isports like basketball (James Yap), billiard (Efren Bata Reyes), boxing (Manny Pacquiao) ug daghan pa.
2. Business matter, Tag-iya sa SM (Henry Sy)
3. Tag-iya sa dagkung kumpanya like ABS-CBN (Lucio Tan) ug GMA (Gozon)
4. Tig-himo sa balay. Engineers at construction workers.
5. Writer like Shakespeare ug ako. (ehem!)
6. Pastor, Pari mga nagdala sa simbahan.
7. Political Leaders (daghan ang lalaki nga presidente okey?)
8. Pulis ug mga sundalo, nag protekta sa Pilipins.
9. Mga sugarol sa karera ug kabayo ug sa sabongan ug manok.
10. Maayung laki nga kawatan pareha ni Lupin ug Robin Hood.
11. Technicians. Tig-ayo sa mga cellphone, computers, suga ug daghan pa.
14. Maayo mokanta, composers, motukar sa sista.
15. Maayo nga doktor (Hayden Kho) ug nag oopera ug bisan unsa nga sakit.
16. Inventors. Albert Einstein. Isaac Newton.
17. Sikat nga Superheroes. Spiderman ug Superman.
18. Mga animators at painters.
19. Photographers.
20. Hosts. Willie Revillame, Tito, Vic ug Joey.
21. Leader sa mga rally.
22. Pinakadatu nga tao sa tibook kalibutan. Bill Gates.
23. Si Jollibee, Ronald Mcdonald, Kenny Rogers, Mang Inasal, Mang Tomas, ug daghan pa.
24. Si Papa Jesus.
25. Wala si Eba kung wala si Adan. (ayaw na mo ug palag)

BAYOT:

1. Director sa pelikula ug concert. (Joey Reyes, Joel Lamangan)
2. Fashion Industry. (Poy Quinones, Rene Salud)
3. Tig make-up ug ug parlor. (Fanny Serano, Ricky Reyes)
4. Script Writers, Showbiz writers, tsismosa (Sweet, Boy Abunda)
5. Costume Designers
6. Tig-organize sa mga beauty pageants like Bb. Pilipinas, Miss Earth & etc.
7. Judges. Tig-judge kung gwapa ba or dili, gwapo ba or dili.

BABAE:

1. Maayo nga maestra sa eskwelahan.
2. Maayo moluto sa balay (pero mga lalaki gihapon ang maayo kung naa sa mga hotels)
3. Maayo molaba ug magplantsa
4. Maayo sa pag arte (Anne Curtis, Angel Locsin etc.)
5. Maayo mokanta. (Regine Velasquez, Charice Pempengco)
6. Endorser sa sabong panglaba ug shampoo (Susan Rocess, Mareng Winnie Monsod)
8. Nurses, Pagbantay sa mga bata ug naay sakit.

TOMBOY:

1. Naay Hottest girlfriend in town yeahhhhh....
2. Nothing Follows.

Ang gamay sa babae, bakla ug tomboy
MABUHAY KAMING MGA LALAKI!!!!
mag-unsa kaha mo kung wala me yehey!!!!

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Hero

Ayaw lang mo kakurat sa makita ninyo ha. Dili man ni cya binuang kay tinood jud ni cya. Mura lang ni cya ug ungo-ungo ang style ani pero dili ni cya pampakurat okey? Tou nalang para madali ta. Kung kuryoso jud mo kung kinsa ang Hero diri. Aw, tan-awa lang gud.

[PS: Hulata lang ang counting, nag buffer pa ang video ana]

Lablayp Nako

Kung kinsa to wala pa kabasa sa akong entry about sa Balentayns tan-awa lang ninyo sa older post. Makit-an ra na ninyo.

Anyway mga B2TMC dudes/gals, ako lang i-share ninyo akong kaagi sa akong lablayp. Whereas, hapit naman sad ang Valentines Day ug sakto sad kay February na. Hehehehe, ayaw nalang mo palag ha kay wala jud ko'y mahuna-hunaan nga topic ai.

[P.S: Sorry if Bisaya-English ni cya kay ako ra ni gi-copy paste sa akong blog hehehe... Kapoy na edit gud]

Last December, I was surprised because my friend from High school told me that my ex-GF have a BF already... I feel depressed and sad, I don't know why. LOL! Anyway, the sad thing is, her current BF is one of her Ex-BF before. I always contact her, then I am always ignored! One day she texted me, I though she tried to tell me or greet me "Merry Christmas!" or "Advance Happy New Year!".. WTF! she texted me "Kinsa ka?". Bastard! why she asked me like that? I know and she know that I am the only one call her "bai" everytime I texted her or call her, and she only said that "Who are you?".. that was ridiculous! Then I felt that "parang panakipbutas ra ganeh ko". Hahahaha.. pero anah man jud na cguro... naanad na ko anah... Most of the time, I realized that we are not meant for each other. Grabe lang jud ko kaau ug expectations. And now I am very stupid every time I think of it! Mura jud ko ug paranoid mag huna-huna. Thats why her "babaw" reason why she broke up with me that she wants space in our relationship. Mother-F! I'm not convinced that reason! I better slash of my throat rather than I'm blind from the truth! Fark! hahahaha... Anyway, thats life! I must move on! Everything will be going alright.. I hope so.

Mao ra na sya guys. At least makabalo mo ba. Kay wala pa ko'y mahunahunaan nga topic gud. Anyway, okey naman ko ron. At least naka move on nasad baya ko. Ana man jud na ang kinabuhi sa taw, kung ikaw ang magtinarung sa relationship, ikaw ang binuangan. Kung ikaw ang magbinuang, siya ang magtinarung. So ana lang ha. Relax lang ta. "Lets live life to the fullest!" sakto ba ko?

[updated by Deathwolf]